
We all go through seasons when we don’t get what we deeply desire—whether it’s a job, a relationship, health, children, financial stability, or a home. In those moments, it’s so easy to feel frustrated or even bitter, especially when we see others around us receiving the very things we’ve been longing for. You might find yourself thinking, "Why them? Why not me? I’ve been patient, I’ve waited, and yet it seems like they’re getting what I’ve been praying for."
It’s natural for these thoughts to creep in, but as Christians, we’re called to approach things differently. Romans 12:15 tells us to "Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep." This doesn’t mean we only rejoice when things are going well for us or when we finally get what we want. It means we’re called to be genuinely happy for others, even when it’s hard.
Think about those moments when your friend announces their engagement, and you’re still waiting for that special someone. Or when a coworker gets the promotion you were hoping for. Or when your friends are expecting a healthy little one, and you’re left wondering when it will be your turn. These are joyful, yet tough situations, but God calls us to rejoice with them regardless.
But friends, here's the thing: God is always at work, even in our waiting. Sometimes, that waiting is part of His plan to prepare our hearts for something greater. It’s in these seasons that we have a choice—do we let bitterness and frustration take over, or do we let God shape our hearts to be more like His?
It’s also so important to remind ourselves that God’s wisdom far exceeds ours. Sometimes, we may not get what we want, even after years of waiting. So, how do we respond? Do we complain and resent what we haven’t been given? Or do we trust in who God is?Â
He is perfect in all His ways (Psalm 18:30). He is infinitely wise (Romans 11:33-36). He never withholds good from His children (Psalm 84:11).
If God is holding something back from us, it’s likely because it’s not what’s best for us right now—or maybe ever. But even in that, He’s given us something far better: Himself. He is all we need, and in Him, we can find true satisfaction.
It’s okay to feel disappointed or discouraged when we don’t get what we’ve been praying for. The Psalms show us that it’s natural to express those feelings to God. But each time, the Psalmist also reminds himself of God’s goodness and faithfulness. He doesn’t let his emotions control him; instead, he lets the truth of God’s character guide him.
God can use our waiting in ways we can’t even imagine. So, while we wait, let’s choose to rejoice with others, knowing that God is good and sovereign and that His timing is perfect. Above all, let’s remember that He is trustworthy, and He is working for our good, even when we can’t see it.
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